Sunday, March 1, 2015

Well done, Brunilda. And see you later.

Perhaps you don’t know, but the Christian family lost an outstanding member this past Friday. In fact, you probably don’t know, because she shone her light in a tiny community in rural Ecuador that most people don’t even know exists.
I only met her once, and regret not having talked to her more. I went to visit Las Jaguitas a few months ago with Kenia, an Ecuadorian friend, who was showing me around her home town. She took me to visit her grandma, Brunilda, and I immediately noticed this woman’s beauty. She was 84 years old and lived in a simple house with only the barest necessities. She had lived a hard life, constantly battling poverty, seeing 3 of her children die and being the sole caretaker of a blind husband and mentally handicapped daughter. Yet, in spite of all this there was a peace and sweetness reflected in the lines of her face that were easily recognisable.
But it wasn’t until she passed away and I heard people talking about her, that I realized how truly special this woman was. Brunilda spent her whole life living in Las Jaguitas- she had never even been to the ocean (which is only about 2 hours away). She was not well educated and never had a lot of money, yet I find myself admiring her more than many other people I have met. Her devotion to God was of greater worth than a world of PHDs and paper diplomas.
Every morning Brunilda faithfully swept the one room church in Las Jaguitas and prayed the entire time she did it. She learned to read using the Bible as her primer with the whole purpose of being able to read it. This woman who had barely any education knew entire psalms by memory. At the funeral her family kept mentioning how she had a special talent of making food stretch. No matter how many people showed up at her house or how little she had, she always found a way to make her bit of food go all around- even give people seconds. Her son says he thinks God blessed her hands to make the food multiply. The preacher said she never failed to have orange juice ready for him when he was preaching. Her nephew said he had never seen her angry or complain. She was like a mother to the whole community, giving more than she had and always listening, caring and giving gentle, wise advice.
As I took my turn to look in the casket- at the lined, serene, face- I felt I was looking at a veteran comrade-in- arms who had successfully completed her last mission. I looked at her and realized that I want to be like her. I can get so caught up in theological discussions, philosophies, big questions that history has never answered. I can run around in circles in my head, going dizzy chasing these things, but when I looked at Brunilda I realized that those things don’t matter so much. Her simple, child-like faith stood the test of life’s hardest storms and questions, and she came out of the furnace a rare quality of gold.

Well done, Brunilda. Enjoy your well-earned reward. I know I’ll be seeing you later.

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